Every day when I wake up, I do so with a sense of purpose. Challenges come my way. Negativity tries to hold me back. Remember, you’re stronger than you think, even if no one else tells you. I want you to know that you are capable of achieving anything you set your mind to. This applies whether it’s something good or bad. Keep striving towards your goals, no matter what obstacles you face. Success is within your reach, and your journey will become your testimony. Hold your head high and walk confidently; even if you’re going through tough times, trust that God is protecting you. Stay positive, focus on your growth, and don’t let negativity weigh you down.
Perseverance Through Adversity
I’ve noticed many people are facing challenges, and I want to remind you that it’s okay; you will overcome what you’re experiencing. God granted you another day because He believes you have so much to offer the world. Embrace self-love and maintain a positive outlook during this time. Pray, keep your faith strong, and don’t let negativity bring you down. Remember, things will improve.
There have been numerous occasions when I felt on the brink of giving up, but I had to remind myself of my life’s purpose. It’s important to recognize that everyone faces challenges in life.
Learning from Hardships
I’ve experienced mistreatment and difficult situations, but I’ve learned to:
- Believe that better times are ahead
- Grow from these experiences
- Practice kindness, knowing that karma is real
- Be mindful of how I treat others, as it often comes back in unexpected ways
The Journey of Personal Growth
My path to achieving my goals hasn’t been easy, but I’ve learned to:
- Maintain a positive outlook
- Persevere and prove to myself that I’m capable of anything
Encouragement for Tough Times
Remember to:
- Stand tall and confident
- Trust that things will improve
- Avoid unnecessary stress when faced with setbacks
This journey of personal growth and resilience is ongoing, but staying positive and determined can help us overcome any obstacle.
“Insecure”: A Relatable Portrayal of Black Women’s Experiences
The critically acclaimed show “Insecure” has resonated with many viewers, particularly black women, for its authentic and nuanced representation of their lives and experiences. Created by Issa Rae, the show has been praised for its ability to shed light on the multifaceted struggles and triumphs of black women navigating various aspects of life, including their careers.
Reflecting Real-Life Challenges
From the very first season, “Insecure” captured the relatable struggles faced by the main character, Issa, in her professional life. Her experiences at the non-profit job, such as financial struggles, a toxic work environment, and a sense of not belonging, struck a chord with many viewers who have encountered similar challenges in their own careers.
As the show progressed, Issa’s journey became even more resonant, showcasing the complexities and stereotypes that black women often face in the workplace. The show’s ability to depict these experiences with honesty and authenticity has been widely appreciated by audiences who have felt seen and understood.
Celebrating Black Women’s Resilience and Entrepreneurship
One of the most empowering aspects of “Insecure” is its portrayal of Issa’s growth and transformation into a boss woman and entrepreneur. After facing disappointments and setbacks in her career, Issa’s journey towards entrepreneurship serves as an inspiring representation of black women’s resilience and determination to forge their own paths.
The show’s use of Issa’s inner monologues and imagined scenarios, where she talks to herself in the mirror or envisions situations, adds a layer of relatability and vulnerability, allowing viewers to connect with her thought processes and self-reflections.
Shattering Stereotypes and Promoting Representation
“Insecure” has been widely praised for its ability to shatter stereotypes and provide a nuanced representation of black women’s experiences. By showcasing the diverse career paths and personal journeys of the four main characters, who are all college-educated black women, the show challenges the narrow and often negative portrayals of black women in media.
The show’s success and resonance with audiences highlight the importance of diverse storytelling and representation in the entertainment industry. By giving a platform to authentic narratives that reflect the complexities and multidimensionality of black women’s lives, “Insecure” has become a cultural touchstone and a source of pride for many viewers who see themselves reflected on screen.
Embracing Women in the Tech Industry
The tech industry has historically been male-dominated, and women have faced numerous challenges in pursuing careers in this field. However, embracing diversity and creating an inclusive environment for women can bring immense benefits to organizations and the industry as a whole. Here are some ways to embrace and support women in the tech industry:
1. Promote Equal Opportunities and Fair Compensation
Ensure that women are given equal opportunities for hiring, promotions, and career advancement. Implement transparent and unbiased compensation practices, ensuring that women receive fair and equitable salaries for their work, without any discrimination based on gender.
2. Foster an Inclusive and Supportive Culture
Cultivate a workplace culture that values diversity, respect, and inclusivity. Encourage open communication, provide mentorship programs, and create support networks for women in tech. Address and eliminate any instances of discrimination, harassment, or insensitive behavior towards women in the workplace.
3. Encourage Leadership and Representation
Actively promote and support women in leadership roles within the organization. Provide opportunities for women to take on challenging projects, lead teams, and contribute to decision-making processes. Increased representation of women in leadership positions can inspire and empower other women to pursue careers in tech.
4. Offer Flexible Work Arrangements
Recognize that women often juggle multiple responsibilities, such as caregiving duties or family obligations. Offer flexible work arrangements, such as remote work options, flexible schedules, or on-site childcare facilities, to support women in balancing their professional and personal lives.
5. Provide Training and Development Opportunities
Invest in training and development programs specifically designed for women in tech. Offer workshops, mentorship programs, and networking events that address the unique challenges and experiences faced by women in the industry. Encourage continuous learning and skill development.
6. Celebrate and Recognize Women’s Achievements
Highlight and celebrate the achievements and contributions of women in the tech industry. Share success stories, recognize their accomplishments, and provide platforms for them to share their experiences and insights. This can inspire and motivate other women to pursue careers in tech.
By embracing and supporting women in the tech industry, organizations can tap into a diverse pool of talent, foster innovation, and create a more inclusive and equitable workplace. It is crucial to address the challenges and barriers faced by women in tech and actively work towards creating an environment where they can thrive and contribute to the industry’s growth and success.
Grateful
As we know the world is always evolving and lately the economy has been changing a lot. At times we can often complain or feel ungrateful about the events in life. Never let this get you down because you always have something to be grateful for.
No matter how challenging the situation may seem, there is always something to be grateful for. Whether it’s the love and support of family and friends, the opportunities for personal growth, or the simple pleasures of life, gratitude can be found in even the most trying times.
Instead of dwelling on the negative, embrace the changes with an open mind and a grateful heart. This mindset not only fosters inner peace and contentment but also empowers us to navigate life’s twists and turns with resilience and grace.
I want to let all my subscribers know that I am grateful for each and everyone you support me and reading my content. It means the world to me.
A Heartfelt Expression of Gratitude
To all my cherished subscribers, I want to convey my profound gratitude for your unwavering support and engagement with my content. Your presence and dedication mean the world to me, and I am truly humbled by the connection we have forged.
Each time you take the time to read or engage with my work, it fills me with a sense of purpose and inspiration. Your support is the driving force that motivates me to continue creating and sharing my passion with the world.
I am deeply grateful for the opportunity to connect with each and every one of you, and I value the trust you have placed in me. Your loyalty and enthusiasm are the fuel that propels me forward, and for that, I am eternally thankful.
Please know that your support is not taken for granted, and I will continue to strive to deliver content that resonates with you and enriches your experience. Together, we embark on a journey of discovery, growth, and shared experiences, and I am honored to have you by my side.
I Quit
Have you ever felt the pressure of stress hoping you back from having a to let stress affect you on a daily basis. Speaking from experience quitting a toxic work environment can be healthy for your wellbeing.
Working in an environment that is toxic to your health and wellbeing for money can lead to more stress. It can lead to more anxiety and depression. Believe me I’ve worked for companies that I’ve seen stress in my life just from working. I’ve gained so much weight because I used food to fill up or I went to cry and then came back like nothing happened. The only problem was the places I worked at weren’t healthy for me. I know we need work to make ends meet and do things that help us get out of our rut.
At this point in my life, I should have quit and started afresh somewhere else and not kept this kind of negative energy around me. Other factors that made me feel this way were unfair labor practices. If you are looking to work for a company and you see a lot of things that are wrong with this company, don’t continue to give them your time. Instead, do yourself a favor and quit or find a new role.
We all want to succeed in the career we choose, but if it doesn’t serve you well, then leave. At a few companies, salary wise and career wise, I felt like I deserved more, promotion, and better treatment.
I’m not saying quit. I’m saying quit toxic work environments.
Don’t let toxic work environment poison you.
Your health is more important than any unnecessary drama.
Go where you’ll be treated fairly and given the honor of advancing in your career.
Gender or color shouldn’t be a reason why you’re not promoted.
Your self-worth is more than enough.
Finding a Sense of Belonging
When you’re working in a company, this can be the difference between success and failure. From my experience working in corporate, I’ve often felt like I didn’t belong at some of the companies I worked at.
When you consider this, the queries you make are:
Are there people in my age group?
Will I see people in my culture who I identify with?
What do I if I can not finding any belonging?
Don’t worry, I know what it’s like. I’ve also been in this situation where I’ve tried to find my identity at my company but couldn’t.
I’ve also found that this can also lead some employees to start looking for other jobs.
Being in a company where I didn’t feel like I belonged is tough. I’m looking for certain boxes to check to feel that emptiness. When I brought it up at a few companies, things didn’t make sense. Meet and greets for me would be socially awkward because I’m not married and I don’t have kids. I remember being at a meet and greet, and I was in a group with people who had recently gotten married and were starting a family or had kids already. I was so embarrassed because I wasn’t in that group. If you’re going to match people together but don’t match them by what they have in common in terms of life in going, then you don’t make me feel welcome.
Culture wise when working at a company that doesn’t have a clue what it means to be a Black professional and how your values may be different from the values on which their world is built on.
One of the easiest things to do is to accept or learn about my culture. I have friends who are not black and I have learned their culture so I know what it is. Being black is not enough that you are undervalued at most companies. Some companies will hire you just to say that they have diversity but they will never understand that you have the skills to do it but they will never hire you because of your skin color. You are already hurting because people don’t understand you and where your shoes are.
Everybody wants to be accepted in the workplace and treated fairly. I accept everybody for who they are no matter what. Show other’s that you can do the same thing in the workplace.
Happy Monday
Let’s begin the week with positivity.
Wake up every morning knowing that you are blessed to continue doing what you love.
Let go of anything that doesn’t make you happy.
Show gratitude for what you already have.
Say words of affirmation every day to keep the positivity flowing.
You can choose yourself, and you can choose to be happy. I wake up every day with a feeling of joy, knowing that I have been blessed and that I have made it through many difficult times in my life. I don’t have to pretend to be happy anymore. My life is made up of happiness.
The first time I heard this song, I was in the car. I was thinking about the lyrics and how it spoke to me about loving myself. Over the years, I have learned that I have to love myself on a daily basis. I have to get to know my true self and accept myself for who I am. As I learn more about myself and my self worth, it becomes more beautiful to see the difference I make when I am positive.
I Am Changing
Yes, you heard it right, “I am changing”. Every day that I’m opening my eyes to something new, I know it’s another day that’s giving me the chance to make a difference or find something new. Every day we should be open to learning something new or accepting more of who we’ve become.
When I think about my past and where I am in my career, I think about how I’ve changed as a person over the years. As I look back at my past, I’m thankful that I’m still that voice in the wilderness for other women out there who want to work in IT. I talk to other women sometimes, and we all go through the same struggles of feeling like we don’t belong in a company that’s so resistant to change.
As I reflect on those who have paved that way for us to do this. I am grateful that I am paving the way for other women as well. I have not had an easy career path with some of the struggles that I have came across but guess what it made me a better person and I have learned from it.
I wanted to tell you a bit about the book. I’ll post a pre order link on my website closer to the book’s release date, and I’ll personally sign the book and mail it to you.
What You Waiting For?
I keep asking myself, “What are you waiting for?” I know there aren’t many women in your industry, but don’t let that stop you from reaching your goals. Set the bar for others to aspire to the same level of success in Information Technology.
I went through a time in my career where I struggled to find a place to work that accepted me because it was a new concept to a lot of men in this industry who were not accustomed to having a woman in their workplace. Is it worth it?
I remember when I worked at the Trap House. It was exciting for them to say they had a female in IT now. It sometimes made my day to see them see me doing a role that they were most likely seeing a man do. To know that I am capable of anything I set my mind to and that I can do what the men do and better.
When I started getting my first hands-on experience, I started volunteering at my alma mater’s IT department. I had a good relationship with several of the IT admin’s in the building at which I took all my classes. I went into one of them and expressed my interests and aspirations. At the time, there weren’t many women in my industry pursuing a career in the IT field as I did, so I learned a lot from this individual and was eager to learn more.
Once I graduated from college, my career took a backseat because a lot of guys weren’t ready to close the gender gap at the time they hired me. I went to the finish line and all I heard was, “I don’t think you’d be a good fit for our team.” I was learning the hard way that my career wasn’t a safe space for me as a woman.
During this time, I tried to do things in my life that I didn’t feel passionate about but I knew my heart was in IT. I didn’t give up. I kept working on it.
This is a chapter in my book, and I’m giving you a sneak peek before it hits shelves in 2024. So what are you waiting on?